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Got stood up on a date!

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I don’t know whether this is type of thing this subReddit allows so if it gets taken down, so be it. I just feel like sharing this experience.

Last week this guy asked on a date, we had been talking for about a couple of weeks on Instagram. I agreed and we decided on a nice Italian place.

I wore a new dress(in hindsight, I shouldn’t have wasted my new dress for an asshole like him) and arrived on time, he wasn’t there, when I called him and he said he was running a little late that I should go ahead and order, which I did. I called again 20 minutes later, he apologised and said he’s on his way and will take him 15 more minutes. Then about a couple of minutes after, he sent a voice note saying he won’t be able to make it, he said he’ll explain everything later.

Initially, I was livid, but then I realised that the pizza in front of me was so good, I probably wouldn’t wanna share it anyway. But the insecurities kicked in with the thought that maybe he came, saw me and then left 🥲 so I just went home and got drunk.

It’s been 8 days and he still hasn’t said a word. Screw him.

Edit : Since many have asked Squisito, it’s in KP, I ordered their P-18 pizza and Ravioli in pink sauce. Trust me. It’s incredible.

Edit 2: Thank you all!!! Some of you really made me laugh. And No, I don’t wanna go on a date, I’m gonna be moving out of Pune soon anyway.

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37 responses to “Got stood up on a date!”

  1. ThatAppSecGuy Avatar
    ThatAppSecGuy

    Let me ask the real question. Which Italian place did you go to? Wife likes Italian food so will dine with her. Also, recommend me the pizza as well.

    Thank you.

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  2. Lazzy_guy Avatar
    Lazzy_guy

    Plot twist. Guy works for restaurant and his job is to bring dates and make them order.

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  3. No-Tip1830 Avatar
    No-Tip1830

    That’s sad! But more power to you! Atleast you had a great pizza. Pls don’t take these things personally (ik easier said than done) but it speaks more about him than you.

    Reply
  4. Fast_Association_998 Avatar
    Fast_Association_998

    Hi that was me, I was going to reach out but I got stuck in Mundhwa bridge traffic for 3 days 2 nights. Sorry for not making it.

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  5. HarshadJhunjhunwala Avatar
    HarshadJhunjhunwala

    I reached 10 minutes early actually but I slipped on a banana peel and fell right before I was about to enter the resturant. I thought I would go home and just change my clothes and come back . I received your call shortly and told you I was coming . Then when changing the clothes, I was in a hurry so got caught up wearing my jeans and fell . While falling my head hit the corner of the shelf and I got a concussion. I sent you a voice note before I called an ambulance and then I fainted. I lost my memory that day . It came back when I saw this post . I love you 😌

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  6. Fresh-Sock-422 Avatar
    Fresh-Sock-422

    Pretty sure he would’ve apologized and followed through if he saw you with the new dress, but no explanation for 8 days is crazy, you dodged a missile like mbappe dodging a contract renewal at PSG

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  7. Nishadgoliwadekar Avatar
    Nishadgoliwadekar

    Don’t let it hamper your confidence in any way.
    It’s really a good thing that you got stood up on Day 1 instead of slowly realising he’s no good.

    Getting stood up is fine, but 0 explanation after 8 days is unfair. I hope no one on his side passed away or something, that could be the only reason worth being okay with, but improbable anyway. I would suggest not welcoming such people back no matter how much they try and crawl back. May be there’s a chance he came, he saw and ran away, but it’s not on you. Ugly too pretty unfair fair tall short fat slim – Any superlatives are irrelevant reasons. If he did this, he definitely isn’t a decent person no matter what else he does. Never fall for such people no matter how cute or passionate they may seem.

    Reading about pizza hurt as I wrote this being v hungry.

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  8. Sharik0be Avatar
    Sharik0be

    (づ◡﹏◡)づ
    there there.

    Reply
  9. UniqueRip4803 Avatar
    UniqueRip4803

    Block him. Can you imagine having this loser as your boyfriend?? Just block him

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  10. __A-P_O-P__ Avatar
    __A-P_O-P__

    Alright, we get it. You’re a redditor that gets dates.

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  11. Tall_Sprinkles7608 Avatar
    Tall_Sprinkles7608

    It could be anxiety to meet in person and not live up to the expectations of the conversations, you dodged a bullet.

    Reply
  12. ArrivalLess Avatar
    ArrivalLess

    This reminds me of a failed date I went through in 2019. I was talking to this girl on Instagram and it was going well and she asked me for a movie (Aladdin). I used to be in college and was broke but I invested half the money I had in buying movie tickets and popcorn and had kept some for dinner later.
    When I reached the theatre she didn’t show up and wasn’t picking up my call. I kept calling her but she didn’t pick up at all. I waited for her outside the theatre in hope that she must be rushing and that is why couldn’t pick up my calls.
    But she called me 30 minutes later and said that she was sleeping and she won’t be able to make it. After that I just went to watch that movie alone as I couldn’t return the tickets and ate those popcorn I had bought for her. One good thing I got to learn from it is that I can watch movies alone!

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  13. Accomplished-Law3767 Avatar
    Accomplished-Law3767

    Drop your review on the pizza and the place 😄

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  14. Maleficent6162 Avatar
    Maleficent6162

    May I ask for the Italian place where you are pizza there? How was the taste of pizza , and also screw that guy!

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  15. LadkaMaalHai Avatar
    LadkaMaalHai

    Sorry to hear that. Hoping you get a better guy, next time just ask them to pick you up or vice versa

    Also, after 6 months I am back at working out and eating within my macros. you have described the Pizza that you had in the comments which tempts me and doesn’t fit in my macros. Thank you for giving me a heartburn

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  16. whyamihere999 Avatar
    whyamihere999

    Next time swatahchi khurchi table gheun ja..

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  17. punekar_2018 Avatar
    punekar_2018

    Next time wear a burkha so that they cannot see you

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  18. Marvel-Fan2908 Avatar
    Marvel-Fan2908

    Oh girl! Why are you so insecure… He probably came and saw you and thought she’s out of my league and if I go and meet her she will leave after seeing me and my personality.
    And hence it explains the ghosting as well he is in self doubt and unsecured after seeing you✨

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  19. Small-Alternative-76 Avatar
    Small-Alternative-76

    He probably saw your reddit post history

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  20. brainyuncle7 Avatar
    brainyuncle7

    Shy shy aa gaya hoga

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  21. Significant-Area-561 Avatar
    Significant-Area-561

    Well! It’s sad but it’s on him not you! You devoured that pizza so it’s a win!

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  22. tuzya_aaichi_gaand Avatar
    tuzya_aaichi_gaand

    Op thank you i gonna try this pizza now.

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  23. Eulerfan21 Avatar
    Eulerfan21

    Hey yeah I am sorry for being late. Was helping an old couple move some stuff out of their house, they didn’t let me leave!
    How about we setup another date?😊😁

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  24. PieComprehensive2204 Avatar
    PieComprehensive2204

    I’m new to this city,

    And 7 years younger than you. No dates lol, but vapas se pizza khane chalna hai?

    Mujhe workplace ke bahar dost chahiye. 😅

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  25. KGBxHEADHUNTER Avatar
    KGBxHEADHUNTER

    Happens to most of the people and it’s always a positive thing that unwanted people leave before even entering our life I know we get insecure a lot for sometime but there is always a better person then them out somewhere waiting for us so just enjoy the journey till you find that one 😊

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  26. Altruistic-Two3038 Avatar
    Altruistic-Two3038

    Ye date kya hoti hai?

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  27. emmfranklin Avatar
    emmfranklin

    Just my 2 cents. Sometimes the guy does turn up but does not inform. He sees the girl from a distance and realizes that she is not his type. He then goes incognito.

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  28. Anikastacea Avatar
    Anikastacea

    Hearing this, I am now wishing to go out by myself and eat, a lot !!

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  29. LifeguardWooden8056 Avatar
    LifeguardWooden8056

    Squisito is a damn good place!

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  30. donotlistentothisguy Avatar
    donotlistentothisguy

    Reminds me of the time I got stood up on a date a couple of months ago. I asked out a girl and we decided to meet in the evening at Amanora Starbucks in Pune. I went there after office about 30 mins early since this was my first ever date. Walited for an hour, she told me she will be late by another 30 mins. After 30 mins I again messaged her. She stopped responding, left me on read. I gave up and left. Felt so bad that my confidence took a huge hit and haven’t managed to ask anyone out after that.

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  31. Sea_Finish6689 Avatar
    Sea_Finish6689

    Plot twist it was the owner of the pizza place all along

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  32. Infinite-Print3047 Avatar
    Infinite-Print3047

    Okay. It happens.
    Maybe he saw you. Maybe he was ‘fattu’ to even say hi.
    There are people like that. Maybe he was an okay person but had anxiety.
    And now he’s feeling too guilty to ask for forgiveness.

    It was good he left sooner rather than later.
    Think of this as good riddance.

    This DOES NOT mean you should blame this situation on yourself.

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  33. kedaran33 Avatar
    kedaran33

    Seems like you had a wonderful time. Thank your stars some lousy bum didnt ruin your evening.

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  34. clanlord Avatar
    clanlord

    ..

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  35. sasssyfoodie Avatar
    sasssyfoodie

    Married ho Sakta hai, daar gaya hoga or he might have thought you are way too beautiful for him🤣

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  36. ihtar_tajar Avatar
    ihtar_tajar

    as someone who has been consistently late at reaching places where i should’ve been in time, i was going to defend this guy, but

    >It’s been 8 days and he still hasn’t said a word. Screw him.

    you know what? screw him!

    and in solidarity, i’ll visit a Pizza place and eat an entire Pizza, all by myself!

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  37. Weary_Goal_4216 Avatar
    Weary_Goal_4216

    Ghode ki mil nhi rhi ghas ,aur gadhe kha rhe chavanprash

    Reply

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